What is a Confidential Non Judgemental Consultation?
A Confidential Non Judgemental Consultation is a private appointment where you discuss any sexual health concern without fear of judgement. Firstly, the doctor listens to your words and your goals. Then, together, you decide what happens next. Because nothing is assumed about your gender, body or partners, you stay in control throughout. This visit suits anyone who has ever felt rushed, misread or judged in a clinic before. Above all, it is a calm starting point, not a test you can fail.
Is my visit really private?
Yes, your visit is genuinely private, and confidentiality is our first promise. Records, billing and appointment details are shared only with your clear consent. Moreover, the consulting room is closed and quiet, so you can speak freely. Because trust matters in sexual health, the team explains exactly who can see your notes and why. If you have any worry about privacy, please raise it early, and we will address it before we go further.
Who is this consultation for?
This consultation is for any adult who wants inclusive, respectful sexual health advice. Whether you are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex or questioning, you are welcome here. Equally, people who simply want a private space, away from assumptions, are welcome too. Because care is anatomy based and behaviour based, no label is needed to receive good advice. In short, if you have a question about your body, your relationships or intimacy, this visit is for you.
What happens during the appointment?
During the appointment, you and the doctor talk before anything else happens. Initially, he asks open questions and listens carefully to your answers. After that, he explains your options in plain language, without jargon. Because you guide the pace, you can pause, change the subject or stop at any point. Finally, you agree a simple plan that fits your comfort, your budget and your life. Nothing is decided for you.
What questions might the doctor ask?
The doctor may ask about your health, your concerns and, only if relevant, your sexual practices. Importantly, questions are asked to guide safe care, never to judge you. You may decline any question, and that choice is always respected. Because honest answers help us tailor testing, the team explains why each question matters. Even so, you share only what you are ready to share on the day.
Will I be examined on the first visit?
No examination happens unless you agree to it and it is genuinely needed. Often, the first visit is only a conversation. If a test or examination would help, the doctor explains why and asks your consent first. Because a trauma informed approach guides us, you can stop at any moment. For sensitive checks, see our trauma informed examination service, which keeps you in charge at every step.
What can this consultation lead to?
This consultation can lead to several next steps, depending entirely on what you want. Common pathways include the following.
- Testing for sexually transmitted infections, chosen by site and behaviour
- HIV testing, along with PrEP or PEP advice
- Vaccination against HPV or hepatitis
- Contraception, fertility or pregnancy counselling
- Referral for pelvic, anal or psychosexual care
Because each pathway is optional, you decide what to accept and when to begin. Furthermore, you can take one step now and return for the rest later, whenever you feel ready to continue.
How do you use inclusive language?
We use inclusive language by describing anatomy and behaviour, not by assuming identity. For example, screening is offered to people with a cervix rather than to a gender. Similarly, we ask about the sites and practices that matter for testing, without labelling you. Because a transgender woman is a woman and a transgender man is a man, your identity is respected fully. In this way, advice stays both accurate and affirming, and you never have to explain or defend who you are.
What if I feel nervous or have had a bad experience before?
If you feel nervous, please know that many people do, and the team expects it. Firstly, you may tell the staff what has worried you in the past. Then, the doctor adjusts the pace, the language and the setting to suit you. Because past experiences can leave real fear, nothing is pushed on you. Instead, you lead, and each small step is agreed before it happens. Over time, many people find that a calm first visit makes future care far easier to face.
Can I bring a partner or support person?
Yes, you may bring a partner, friend or support person to the consultation. Alternatively, you may come alone if you prefer that. Because some topics are personal, the doctor may offer you a few minutes privately as well. Still, the choice is entirely yours. In every case, your comfort shapes how the visit runs.
How much does the consultation cost?
We do not publish a fixed price, because needs differ from person to person. After understanding what you want, the team gives a clear written estimate in rupees. Moreover, the estimate lists the consultation and any agreed tests separately, so there are no surprises. Because cost can be a real barrier, please ask about your options openly during the visit.
How is my information stored and shared?
Your information is stored securely and shared only with your explicit consent. Within the wider LGBTQ+ Sexual Health service, notes stay confidential and access is limited to those directly involved. If a referral is needed, only the necessary details are sent, and only with your agreement. Because control rests with you, you may ask what is recorded at any time.
How do I book a Confidential Non Judgemental Consultation?
You book a Confidential Non Judgemental Consultation by contacting Elegance Clinic in Surat for a private appointment. Simply request a time that suits you, and the team arranges a quiet slot. Because the first step is often the hardest, the staff make booking easy and discreet. Once you arrive, Dr. Ashutosh Shah will guide you calmly from there, at a pace you choose. Whether your question is simple or complex, you will leave with clear next steps and no pressure. To learn more about the full range of inclusive services, explore our anatomy and behaviour based sexual history page as a helpful next read. Because every question is welcome, you can arrive with as many or as few concerns as you like.
Note: This page is for general information and is not a substitute for a medical consultation. Inclusive sexual health care is individual and confidential, and Dr. Ashutosh Shah and the team will guide you with respect and without judgement.
Ready to Talk, Privately?
Book a confidential consultation with Dr. Ashutosh Shah. There is no pressure, only clear and honest guidance.